The Two Keys to Getting Unstuck |
Posted: October 2, 2014 |
The Two Keys to Getting Unstuck Ready? It's not rocket science, is it? WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT THE EGO WANTS YOU YOU TO THINK. "This can't be it...it's too simple!" aaah, but simple is not easy, Grasshopper.... I proobably spend 60-75% of client time on gaining awareness. Seeing the truth of What Is and What Was takes a while when your safety or happiness is linked to the Old Way of seeing. We are enmeshed in our stories because it's how we survived. So when the ego screams that anything new is DANGER, we listen. Think of a child being told to give up their "blankie"....that's what it's like, adult-style. However the second stage, after clients DO wake up, getting them to move into self care is equally difficult. Discovery is not recovery. Now, we're working on the blame. shame and anger...you know--all the things we were hiding from before with our dysfunction and addiction! Listen to me....You need to take the time and do the work. You also need to be kind to yourself as you learn to take responsibility. This is why support and accountability are paramount to get through the process. And most importantly, Peaches, don't give up before the miracle comes.
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